Information about ethical and professional behavior and conduct by therapeutic counselors.
What Would an
Ethical Counselor Do?
We all believe we are ethical. However, in 1985, I graduated with a masters degree in
counseling without ever taking a class in the ethics of counseling. I went out in the world to
work as a counselor in supervised agency settings.
The policies and procedures of the agency governed much of my behavior, but I made ethical mistakes without realizing it.
For example, I became friends
with a man in one of my groups, talked to him about buying a used car from him and we had dinner together one evening.
When I subsequently called him at home and his girlfriend answered, I was confused by her critical comment to me, "You sure don't
seem to understand ethical behavior!"
I had always considered myself to be a very moral person--guided by what I believed was normal
behavior among "good" people. I drew on the example of my father, who was the owner of a drug store in a small Nebraska village
and worked in the store as the professional pharmacist. In that capacity, he was both a source of advice and confidant
of many (most?) of the people in town. He certainly felt free to have lunch or dinner with any one of his customers or to buy a car from one of them.
It was only later--when I took my first course in counselor ethics as part of my counselor continuing
education--that I discovered that counselors, especially in an urban setting, are guided by standards that the general public might consider
strange and unreasonable. Basically, counselors are seen to have an unequal relationship with the clients who have confided in them.
Counselors are therefore ethically prohibited from doing business with their clients in most circumstances (because that creates a confusing
It helps that now Washington State counselors are required to take
ethics courses on a regular, recurring basis--but there are still counselors making terrible mistakes in judgment.
I invite counselors and the public to send examples of situations that would
help counselors and clients to better understand professional counseling boundaries. Perhaps other counselors will have
stories to share anonymously. Stories with good ethical content will be presented on these pages.
"How Consensus Regarding The Prohibition Of Dual Relationships Has Been Contrived,"
By Ofer Zur, Ph.D. Adapted from: Lazarus, A. A. and Zur, O. (Eds.) (2002).
Dual Relationships and Psychotherapy, New York: Springer. Chapter 31, pp. 449-462.
Issues in Decision-Making Counseling," Chapter 6 in the book
by John Horan, Counseling for Effective Decision Making,
[Note: Navigation links to other chapters is on the last line of the web page.]
CounselingSeattle.com page of links for counseling
students studying counselor ethics.. This information is
intended to contribute to classroom discussion and